Our (Crazy) Life with a Baby

29 Sep

Sorry I’ve been so MIA! The first 12 weeks of Milo’s life were filled with ups and downs, and we’ve finally gotten into the swing of things. He has grown so much in the first 3 months, and it’s been a lot of fun bonding with him at home. But now I’m wrapping up my maternity leave and going back to work this week, which means Milo also starts his adventures in daycare. It’s so bittersweet.




Here are some short tidbits/tips I’ve learned from the first 3 months of parenthood:

  • Once you have a baby, you will never sleep again. But it’s true when they say that your body will adjust. As someone who used to LOVE sleep, I’ve learned to deal without it.
  • You will learn to do a lot of things one-handed, or sometimes it just won’t get done. And I’m slowly learning to be okay with that.
  • Breastfeeding is HARD. But I’m so glad I stuck with it, and now it’s one of my favorite ways to bond with my baby.
  • Going out is waaaaay harder, with all the stuff you have to pack, and possibly needing to nurse in public or find a place to change baby’s diaper. Sometimes it’s not even worth leaving the house!
  • Acid reflux will make your life (and your baby’s life) miserable. So. Much. Spit Up.
  • Explosive poops are a thing. And if you have a baby boy, you WILL get peed on during a diaper change.
  • Pumping sucks. Especially when you have to pump constantly in the first few weeks of baby’s life because they’re not gaining enough weight. And now that I’m going back to work and need to provide Milo’s daycare with breastmilk, it’s going to become a necessary part of my daily work routine. Sigh.
  • While a baby doesn’t need much, here are a few items that I would highly recommend getting:
    • Several lightweight blankets. You can use them to swaddle at home, or cover the car seat when you’re outside, and even lay on the floor if you need somewhere for baby to hang out in public.
    • A good odor-absorbing diaper bin. This was something we didn’t think we’d need, but it’s super convenient to keep next to the changing table in the nursery.
    • A pack&play or portable bassinet. If you’re not planning to use the crib for the first few months, this is the perfect alternative to keep in your bedroom.
    • Burp clothes and bibs – we use so many of these, especially with all of the spit up and drool.
    • Portable changing pad. This has been a life saver when we need to change baby in public (public bathrooms seem a million times dirtier once you have a baby).
  • Last but not least, every milestone will seem like the biggest accomplishment – every little smile, the first time he rolls over, when he starts babbling and “talking.” Your heart will just explode with joy and love for this tiny human. It makes it all worth it!

Introducing: Baby Milo!

5 Jul

HE’S HERE! My due date was July 3, but I started feeling contractions on June 25 at around 3 pm. They started getting really bad at midnight on June 27. I labored at home until about 9 am, when I felt like it was time to get to the hospital. The contractions weren’t regular yet, but they were reaching a pain level that made me wonder if we were getting close. Because we live 5 minutes away from the hospital, we decided to go in just to get checked and see how far along we might be. Turns out, I was already 4 cm dilated and 100% effaced, so they admitted me right away.

I got an epidural within the hour, and it was AMAZING (besides the fact that you’re bedridden and need to have a catheter inserted). I was able to rest and spend the day talking with Paul and my mom. My wonderful midwife continued to check me, and at 8 cm she noticed my contractions were slowing down, so she broke my water to move things along and I reached 10 cm at around 8 pm. It took another 45 minutes for the baby to descend further down (this is when the epidural started wearing off, so I felt most of these contractions, along with an intense urge to push). I started pushing at around 8:45 pm, and Milo was born at 9:30 pm on June 27. (I only pushed for 45 minutes! They actually had to tell me to slow down because I was pushing too fast and the cord was wrapped around his neck so they needed to maneuver him out correctly.) He weighed 6lb, 8oz and measured 20.5 in long. They laid him on my chest, and he immediately peed and pooped on me.


Welcome to the world, little one!


He loves to peep at us with only one eye open


Such a sweet sleeper. His face is so expressive.

Over the next few days, both of our families visited us in the hospital and brought us food. They are SO in love with Milo, and it was so fun watching them coo over him.


Such a proud daddy!


Paul’s parents


My parents

After a 2 night hospital stay, we were discharged. Because his bilirubin levels were a little high at the hospital, they had us come back the next day for a follow-up. They discovered his levels had shot up, and ordered that we put him on biliblanket therapy to bring them back down to normal. Because of his jaundice, he wasn’t able to suck/nurse as strongly as he should, so he was also losing weight (he went from 6lb8oz to 5lb15oz in just two days). They had us supplement him with formula for a few days to get him to gain weight, in addition to hoping the biliblanket would work. We had to go back to the hospital every day for a blood draw and nursing session with the clinic. After a week, he was back at his birth weight and his levels were low enough that we could remove the blanket, yay!


Hooked up to the biliblanket


He looks like a little glowing alien


Baby Buddha


Snuggles with daddy


Holding daddy’s finger so tightly

We are so in love with our little man, and we can’t believe we get to be his parents! Now we just need to work on getting him nice and chubby, and building up my milk supply through pumping. The sleep deprivation isn’t that bad (I honestly thought I would be a zombie, but I’m not… yet), and our little family is starting to settle into a routine. Even Dodger has been pretty mellow and following us around the house all day and night. I do love when Milo is sleeping (mainly because it makes for cute photos like these):

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The Final Countdown – 36 Weeks

3 Jun

I’m 36 weeks pregnant and have officially entered my 9th month of pregnancy – eek! I have two more weeks of work until I go on maternity leave, and only 28 (!) days left until my due date. The third trimester has been interesting. Not crazy difficult, but definitely harder than the first and second trimesters. I heard time slows down towards the end of the pregnancy, but it seems to be speeding by…

Here are my third trimester bump photos:










How far along: 36 weeks
Total weight gain: 28 lbs
Maternity clothes: It’s been harder finding clothes in my closet that fit. I don’t want to buy a ton of new stuff this late into the pregnancy, so I’m cycling through the same 2-4 outfits every week.
Sleep: I’m waking up a few times throughout the night to pee and let Dodger out, and then I try to get back to sleep but can’t (usually because there’s SO much activity going on in my belly – I can tell that these 12a, 2a, and 4a feedings will be something I should get used to…) so I end up browsing on my phone until he goes back to sleep. Oh and I’m always waking up sweating. Thanks, hormones.
Exercise: Very light exercise. I will be completely winded after, like, 4 stairs. Or from walking around the house. And my feet hurt if I’m standing up for more than 5 minutes. I get Braxton Hicks contractions whenever I’m too active, so I’m trying to take it easy for the next 4 weeks.
Best moment(s) so far: My baby shower! My childhood best friend, sister-in-law, and two younger sisters hosted the shower at Goofy’s Kitchen in the Disneyland Hotel. It was so much fun, and I feel so blessed by all of the love and support that we received from our close friends and family.
Miss anything: Not having a double chin… :(
Movement: Lots of slow rolls and jabs, starting to get painful (and it makes me a little nauseous). Sometimes I swear he elbows me in the side HARD. He also gets the hiccups at least 3x a day. He’s been head down this entire pregnancy, so I feel his hiccups near my cervix and his kicks near my ribs (I’m super ticklish, so sometimes it’ll make me jump/squeal when he pushes his feet into my side). But I love feeling his movements, it’s still the best thing about pregnancy so far. I’m going to miss it!
Food cravings: Smoothies, boba, popcorn chicken, burgers, applesauce, cheese, cookies.
Mood swings: I’ve been fairly happy/excited lately, the nesting/anticipation is starting to kick in. :) Especially now that we’re almost done with the nursery.
Have you started to show yet: With 4 weeks left, I’d hope so. It’s crazy comparing my recent pictures to my second trimester posts (here and here). It’s been gradual, but I’m really glad I documented the growing bump every week so I can look back and remember what it looked like.
Gender: It’s a boy!
Belly button in or out: It’s gone completely flat – not an outie yet!
Wedding rings on or off: They’re finally off – they still fit, but not comfortably and I’m scared that my fingers will swell and they’ll get stuck!
Looking forward to: Going on maternity leave in two weeks. I’ll be able to get the last few things checked off my list, and then it’s just waiting for baby Milo to arrive. :D

Sneak Peek: Milo’s Nursery

27 May

With just 5 weeks left until our due date, we’re slowly putting together the nursery and baby gear. Being in this room makes me feel so calm and happy. Can’t wait to bring him home. Yay! I snapped a few pics over the weekend:

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3 May

We recently got back from our babymoon and it was wonderful! We had originally wanted to go to Hawaii, but then I decided I’d rather not have to fly to our destination and we could save some money by staying local. So we took a 3-day road trip up the coast instead, hitting up Pismo Beach, Santa Barbara, Morro Bay, and Cambria.


First stop: Splash Cafe in Pismo Beach


Really excited to try Splash Cafe in Pismo Beach


Famous clam chowder at Splash Cafe in Pismo Beach


Cinnamon rolls at Old West Cinnamon Rolls in Pismo Beach


Walking along the Pismo Beach pier


Using our selfie stick at the Pismo Beach Pier


Dinner at Ventana Grill in Pismo Beach – we saw whales from our table!


Calamari at Ventana Grill in Pismo Beach


Carne asada nachos at Ventana Grill in Pismo Beach


Taking a walk around Morro Bay


Far view of Morro Rock


Morro Rock in the background


Exploring Morro Rock


Hubby posing on the beach


So nice seeing all the beaches


Saltwater taffy at Carousel


So much taffy!


Stopped by Brown Butter Cookie Company in Cayucos


We got the lemon sugar and snickerdoodle cookies


Lunch at Sandy’s Deli in Cambria


Moonstone Beach in Cambria


Labbit @ Moonstone Beach in Cambria


My favorite beach – Moonstone Beach in Cambria


Using self-timer on Moonstone Beach in Cambria


Using the selfie stick on Moonstone Beach in Cambria


Hubby @ Moonstone Beach in Cambria


It was soo windy, but still beautiful along the cliffs


McConnell’s Ice Cream in Santa Barbara


We got the Churros Con Leche and Brazilian Coffee Chip


On the beach in Santa Barbara


Breakfast at Boathouse at Hendry’s Beach


Exploring Paul’s alma mater, UCSB


Got some cute baby stuff at the UCSB bookstore


Labbit on the Santa Barbara pier


Walking down the Santa Barbara pier


Pretty views along the Santa Barbara pier


Garlic baked clams at Brophy Bro’s


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