With just 5 weeks left until our due date, we’re slowly putting together the nursery and baby gear. Being in this room makes me feel so calm and happy. Can’t wait to bring him home. Yay! I snapped a few pics over the weekend:
We recently got back from our babymoon and it was wonderful! We had originally wanted to go to Hawaii, but then I decided I’d rather not have to fly to our destination and we could save some money by staying local. So we took a 3-day road trip up the coast instead, hitting up Pismo Beach, Santa Barbara, Morro Bay, and Cambria.
We’ve hit Week 28! So much for doing monthly posts, looks like they’ll be trimester-ly posts instead. The weeks just go by so quickly now. The second trimester was fairly easy for me, besides some minor discomfort with the growing belly, constant lower backaches, round ligament pain, and Braxton Hicks contractions once in a while. Sometimes baby pushes against one side of my stomach and it’ll bulge out – such a strange sensation! Apparently, he’s going to triple (!) in size in the third trimester, so I’m bracing myself for what’s to come. Only 12 weeks left!
Here are some photos from the last few weeks:
How far along: 28 weeks
Total weight gain: 18 lbs
Maternity clothes: I’m only wearing maternity bottoms now (mainly leggings), but I’ll still wear normal tanks on top that stretch over the belly.
Sleep: It’s getting harder to sleep for more than 1-2 hours at a time without interruption, but I think I’ve reached a point where I’m used to it and I know that won’t be changing anytime soon. The 3 am struggle is real – I’ll wake up and can’t get back to sleep until about 5 am.
Exercise: Walking Dodger will usually get me about 20 minutes of exercise/day, but even that short amount gets me super tired and out-of-breath and makes my back hurt.
Best moment(s) so far: Getting both brand-new & hand-me-down goodies from my mommy/daddy friends. Tons of adorable clothes, toys, baby products, nursing items, swing, rock&play, and some other gifts from our very generous family members (like a convertible crib and the BOB jogger stroller that we really wanted!).
Miss anything: I miss being able to put on my shoes or vacuuming without my back seizing up or my belly tightening like crazy. Because I’m carrying low, bending over can be quite uncomfortable.
Movement: He moves a LOT, especially after I eat, during showers, and while I drive. When counting kicks, you’re supposed to feel 10 movements per hour, but I’ll get like 1 per minute when he’s awake! He just constantly rolls around in there (you can see it from outside the belly now). I’ll also feel kicks/punches on either side of my belly at the same time, probably when he’s stretching his limbs.
Food cravings: Rice Krispie treats, sour peach rings, Mcd’s chicken nuggets with sweet & sour sauce, Dole pineapple chunks/sliced peaches/tangerines (cold fruit in general), and popsicles. My sweet tooth has gotten even more intense! (Thankfully, I passed my 1 hr glucose test – results were negative for gestational diabetes.) I will also confess that I ate a few pieces of a sushi roll that contained raw salmon, just once – figured it’s fairly low-risk compared to other “off-limit” foods, and it was so worth it.
Mood swings: Still hormonal here and there. But I’m trying harder to control them…
Have you started to show yet: Neighbors (and a few times, strangers out in public) have started asking when I’m due without us telling them that we’re expecting. So I’ll assume that I’m obviously pregnant at this point.
Gender: It’s a boy!
Belly button in or out: It’s so close to becoming an outie. But not there yet.
Wedding rings on or off: They fit, but I’ve started to wear just my wedding band because it’s less constricting than my engagement ring.
Looking forward to: Our babymoon, baby shower, and baby classes! Also getting the nursery set up. I’ll do another update after all of this occurs. :)
Lately, I’ve been feeling convicted of the fact that I’m neglecting my own heart. It’s so easy to lose sight of the gospel and forget to “feed” your heart with God’s Word when you have so much other stuff going on (work, marriage, pregnancy, weekends, planning, life in general).
I just started reading a book called “A Mom After God’s Own Heart” by Elizabeth George and it’s been so encouraging and convicting, particularly her reminder of the importance of nurturing my heart and filling it with spiritual food on a daily basis – especially as a soon-to-be-mom.
She points out 4 major, serious issues that surface when you don’t regularly dive into God’s Word:
- You start running on empty. Your parenting is empty and evidences of apathy creep into your life. You become dull and devoid of spiritual energy, purpose, motivation, and accomplishment.
- You become heartless. You put yourself and your parenting on auto-pilot. You give in and give up the fight for godly standards and behavior. You fail to make the effort to live out God’s calling to be moms after Him.
- You become worldly. You find yourself preoccupied with the things of this world, enamored by earthly pursuits and rewards. You stop following God’s criteria and His ways, and start walking in the ways of the world.
- You become carnal or unspiritual. You fulfill the lust of the flesh and it becomes evident in your parenting. There will be screaming, yelling, belittling, name-calling, maybe even the slapping, shaking, or pushing of children around.
Scary, right? And honestly? I can already see the impact of skipping my daily Bible reading in some aspects of my life now. It affects my husband, my co-workers, other drivers during my commute, and even my innocent dog.
Look at that face. You wouldn’t think that anyone could lose their patience with him, but when I allow myself to give into my temper and my pride, it all goes out the window. My pregnancy hormones are also partly to blame, but it’s mostly an issue of the heart. It’s been my biggest prayer that God would transform my heart, and it all begins with being more dedicated in reading the Bible every day and spending more time in prayer.
I want to be start building better spiritual discipline & habits for when I am raising Milo and hopefully be able to lead by example. Thank goodness for God’s grace and mercy, which are new every morning!
We’re halfway there! I can’t believe it! I’ll start with pictures first, and then include a wordier update afterwards for those of you who care :) I’m 5 months pregnant now (it’s still so crazy that I get to say that), and we’ve got 20 weeks left until we meet our baby. Here are photos of the growing bump during the second trimester (the first picture is my “starting point” at 10 weeks):
At our 17 week appointment, the doctor was able to determine the baby’s sex! He printed out the scan and put it in an envelope along with a post-it that read either “boy” or “girl.” We waited ALL DAY to open the envelope over dinner (it nearly killed me). When we opened it, we both caught a glimpse of the post-it before the actual sonogram and flipped out. And we had it confirmed during our anatomy scan. It’s a …
I had a hunch it was a boy the whole time (especially due to the lack of any morning sickness), but we were both still kiiinda expecting it to be a girl, so it was a surprise. Knowing he’s a boy has made it seem so much more real. We’ve even decided on a name: Milo! It means “mild, peaceful, merciful,” and with God’s grace, that is exactly the type of little boy we hope baby Milo grows up to be.
Now onto the pregnancy updates! A good blogger would have posted regular weekly updates, but a lazy blogger will do a single post that covers the first 20 weeks. :)
How far along: 20 weeks
Total weight gain: 8 lbs (this has been a fun guessing game between me and Paul every time I get weighed at the doctor’s office).
Maternity clothes: So far, I’ve invested in two pairs of maternity jeans, one pair of maternity leggings, one maternity skirt, and two maternity shirts. They’re all so comfortable! I’ll probably continue wearing them for the next decade.
Sleep: Not great. I am an avid back sleeper, so it’s been hard getting used to sleeping on my side. My sister got me a Boppy maternity pillow and it helps. But I’ll still get up about 6 times a night, and it’s almost impossible to fall back asleep.
Exercise: I’ve been getting into prenatal pilates/yoga lately, and I’m enjoying it so far! I heard it helps with breathing techniques and core strengthening and balance, which I desperately need. Other than that, it’s been hard trying to stay active during this pregnancy. It’s hard when all you want to do is sit on the couch and watch Friends on Netflix.
Best moment(s) so far: Finding out that baby is a he, and feeling the first kicks!
Miss anything: Salami and sushi. I want a chirashi bowl more than anything right now.
Movement: I started feeling flutters at around 17/18 weeks. He’s moving around pretty consistently now. I have a feeling he’s going to be an active baby.
Food cravings: Chipotle, tacos, udon, ramen, pretty much food in general. I eat sooo much!
Mood swings: My hormones have been out of control. My poor husband (and dog) have been on the receiving end of the majority of these moments, but they’ve both been so patient with me.
Have you started to show yet: Yup! I think the belly noticeably popped by 16 weeks.
Gender: It’s a boy!
Belly button in or out: It’s gotten pretty shallow, but it’s still in.
Wedding rings on or off: On.
Looking forward to: Decorating the nursery and the day Paul finally feels the baby kick from outside the belly :)
Hopefully I’ll find some time to do another post soon. Otherwise, see you in the third trimester!